PHOENIX FIX

Hello my dear Fixers! I hope you've had a fabulous start to November. This month's Phoenix Fix comes late for a good reason. I arrived back from my ground-breaking 28-day tour the length of the British mainland only last Monday, and by Friday, I was kicking off my birthday week with a fantastic party with my favourite people from the Femdom and fetish scenes. But don't worry, you're not late to the party! In true Lady Phoenix style, I will be celebrating my birthday all week long until the actual day, Friday 15th November. So there's still time to show me your appreciation and shower me with gifts!

In the meantime, please enjoy these candid photos from Friday night's party, which had some seriously wild outfits! Can you guess what the theme was?

THE FLIGHT OF THE PHOENIX - THE UK TOUR ROUND-UP

At 7:30pm on Monday evening I turned up at one of my favourite local restaurants after returning my hired car (blub! I was so attached to it!) following the 6-hour drive from Land’s End to London (which pips the 5-hour drive from Aberdeen to John O’Groats at the post!). I am celebrating tonight because I achieved my (literal!) dream of travelling the length of the British mainland alone, covering a total of 2400 miles, while doing the job I love in every single one of the 14 towns and cities I visited.

I was on this tour to work! And work I certainly did, only having 2 out of 28 days off! I’ve converted vanillas into kinkies, I’ve introduced a hell of a lot of newbies to a great prostrate massage, and I’ve fulfilled so many fantasies, some that have only been shared with me alone. This I did with just the contents of my suitcase, my body, and above all, my mind.

I absolutely love that I am able to express myself this way, as a strong, independent woman doing the work I love how I want and where I want. In all honesty, I wouldn’t have chosen to do a tour like this as a holiday, as my perverted mind would have drifted off to wondering how kinky the locals were and what kind of fetishes they had! Plus the fact that I was earning as I was travelling has been incredibly empowering. But it needs to be said that I would not have done a 100% work tour either, sitting in my hotel or apartment excessively and filling every hour I didn’t have sessions by filming content or webcamming. Oh no, I wanted to get out there and see places!

Being blessed by a very mild autumn with plenty of sunshine (freakishly so, at times it seemed) made going out to find interesting and beautiful places easy and pleasurable. I set myself a challenge of getting a photo of myself at an iconic landmark at every town or city I visited and making a pun about it. This I achieved (though some puns and photos were better than others!), sometimes more than once in each place.

I was also blessed with some surprisingly awesome moments, like finding Whip-Ma-Whop-Ma Lane in York, and getting a random to photograph me nonchalantly standing next to the sign with a whip.

Speaking of whips, it was 5:40am start in Aberdeen that got me filming my whip jam at Slain’s Castle while being serenaded by a Scottish sunrise on an unseasonably warm and clear morning. It was even worth the £100 fine I subsequently got for driving in a bus lane that morning. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Then there was the full super-moon on a clear night, shining brilliantly on Loch Ness while I drove around with Ama Fox. Being away for 28 days, there was only going to be one full moon, and how magical that we experienced it like that?

My friends along the way kept my spirits and morale high as I met them, in Inverness, Glasgow, Manchester and Birmingham. @theamafox @ScarletDomina @thelilprincesa @nylonaurora @Miss_Wildfire and @RonelleChambers you all gave me a huge lift and it was an honour to spend time with you! So was seeing my Mum and Dad along the way as I traversed from York to Newcastle. And yes, many of my regulars booked sessions with me along the way, often in places I don’t normally see them, and that was very lovely indeed. You supported me and you should feel very pleased with yourselves for that!

Let’s not forget that the idea for this tour was born from a dream that I had on a night in Dubai earlier this year when something horrible happened to me (I won’t go into it now, and many of you know already). I made this tour become a reality through patience, planning and preparation, and I turned something bad around and made it good. That’s why I’m a Phoenix, I guess.

I won’t do a tour like this again, and I won’t do a tour as long as this again. I didn’t say it at the time, but days 22-25 were really tough! So I think 2-week tours will be my maximum in future. But now I’m revelling in the endurance aspect of it, and how it completely tested me mentally and physically. I’m an even stronger woman because of it!

Needless to say, I've been resting and relaxing this past week and will be resuming my sessions at the Lair again on Monday 11 November. This Phoenix has finally landed!

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY AND I'LL PARTY IF I WANT TO - 15/11/2024

After such an epic tour, it's so good to be celebrating my birthday at the end of it. I have a few treats planned for myself this year, but there's still room for a few more! If you'd like to treat me to some pampering or something elegant to wear, please peruse my Throne wishlist for some gift ideas. And a huge thank you to those of you who've already shown your devotion to me with a lovely present!

THRONE BIRTHDAY LIST

OUT AND ABOUT

Being on tour didn't stop me from meeting my friends...in fact it encouraged me to see more of them up and down the country! Whether it was cocktails in Glasgow or curries in Birmingham, seeing these awesome people lit up my tour. I even made a new friend in Bristol out of space politician campaigning there!

You can check all these wonderful people out here:

PRINCESS AURORA DOMINA SCARLET LADY BELLA BIRD AMA FOX RONELLE CHAMBERS MISTRESS WILDFIRE

FEMDOM BALL

Lest we forget that it was only last month that the annual extravaganza that is the Femdom Ball was held in all its glory at a majestic venue in Central London. I was delighted to attend (for the first time, bizarrely!) and lead my slave as I radiated elegance in my Dark Virtues latex gown, specially made for the occasion. There were scores of the most powerful Dominatrixes from around the globe, all there to meet, enjoy some bubbles and see some eye-catching performances. I will definitely be back, in 2025!

LOCKTOBER IS OVER, BUT NOT FOR EVERYONE!

Well done to my two chastity slaves, who both completed the whole of October in chastity. Slave J was finally released after 35 days, and slave m is still in his cage, now 42 days and still going strong...but still weak for his Mistress, who holds his key.

UNTIL STEPMOM IS SATISFIED…. MY LATEST BLOG POST

.....Stepmom unzipped her leather skirt and pulled her black satin pair of panties to the side to reveal her glistening shaved pussy. She held his chin in her hand. “Show me that tongue. That tongue is going to get busy until Stepmom is satisfied.”

READ THE FULL STORY HERE